Spiritual Growth

Devotional-style readings to help you grow and develop wisdom as a spouse, parent, friend, leader, and most importantly, as a Jesus-follower.
Voices Voices
Prayer

Voices

We hear voices in our heads all the time. We’re not crazy because we hear voices (at least not all of us). Most of the time we’re hearing ourselves; we’re giving ourselves instructions, thinking about…

It’s Jesus It’s Jesus
Theology

It’s Jesus

Coming off the ‘mountain top’ of our first-ever mentoring retreat, I’m reminded that Jesus is it. Reading about the religious environment He walked into and the religious environment His followers have created over the last…

Empathy and Self-Esteem Empathy and Self-Esteem
Identity

Empathy and Self-Esteem

If empathy is simply connecting with people’s feelings, why is it so hard? All us Jesus-followers want empathy, right? “They will know we are Christians by our love” falls apart if we can’t meet people…

Men and Empathy Men and Empathy
Influence with Others

Men and Empathy

A man with empathy is about as likely as a man in high-heeled shoes. It rarely comes with the boy. I wish I had it….I really do. But I’m missing the chip. The DNA from…

The Happy Wife Pledge Controversy The Happy Wife Pledge Controversy
Marriage

The Happy Wife Pledge Controversy

There have been 266 posts from Radical Mentoring. Of all these posts, “The Happy Wife Pledge” has been the most commented-on by a factor of 10. By far the most controversial. Here’s the part of…

Dinner Together Dinner Together
Parenting

Dinner Together

I can count things my wife has been insistent about on one hand, but dinner together was always one. “When will you be home?” she’d ask. “I’m tied up…it’s going to be a little while”…

God’s Word. So What? God’s Word. So What?
The Bible

God’s Word. So What?

Because Scripture says it’s one of the two things that will go beyond this life, maybe we should think a little more about it. In heaven, we’ll recognize the words, the wisdom and the authors,…

Caution: Christians Work Here! Caution: Christians Work Here!
Walking the Talk

Caution: Christians Work Here!

When I became a follower of Jesus Christ, they hadn’t even started making fish symbols to stick on the back of your car. But in the workplace, a lot of  people ‘out there’ for Jesus…

Satan is for Real Satan is for Real
Theology

Satan is for Real

It’s pretty easy to discount the devil when he’s thought of as an imaginary figure like the Easter bunny or the elf on the shelf. Red skin, horns and a long tail. Exhaling smoke. Eyes…

“Fast and Reasonable” “Fast and Reasonable”
Marriage

“Fast and Reasonable”

Every time I see one of these signs, I want to throw up. Divorce isn’t fast or reasonable, no matter how cheap the lawyer fee. Let me back up a little. God hates divorce. Therefore…