Spiritual Growth

Devotional-style readings to help you grow and develop wisdom as a spouse, parent, friend, leader, and most importantly, as a Jesus-follower.
What Do I Expect From God? What Do I Expect From God?
Theology

What Do I Expect From God?

You can’t receive love from someone you don’t trust. Think about it. If I don’t trust you, how can I possibly believe you when they say you love me? Even when you do something loving,…

Kids and Adopted Kids Kids and Adopted Kids
Identity

Kids and Adopted Kids

So, I see a pontoon boat on the pond beyond my house. In it are five kids along with a couple of guys. As they draw closer, I notice it’s three black kids, two white…

Presence Presence
Community

Presence

Last month, I took my grandson Aidan to Washington, D.C. for a few days. I couldn’t wait to get to the National Air and Space Museum so I could show him the groundbreaking spaceships of…

The Power of a Good ‘No’ The Power of a Good ‘No’
Decision-Making

The Power of a Good ‘No’

Last week, I wrote about ‘letting your yes be yes’ and how standing at the fork in the road between ‘yes’ and ‘no’ can be the beginning of evil. But what about a good old…

Yes or No Yes or No
Decision-Making

Yes or No

When I began putting Radical Mentoring together, I wanted to make it about real life . . . about the things we do and deal with every day. Early on, the subject of decision-making went…

The Mystery of Motives The Mystery of Motives
Decision-Making

The Mystery of Motives

A motive is “a reason for doing something.” Notice it says a reason, not the reason. We, humans, are complicated rascals. We almost always act with multiple motives. Even when we just want to pass…

To Extend the Union . . . To Extend the Union . . .
Community

To Extend the Union . . .

So why did God create humankind? What was his purpose? The Westminster Shorter Catechism says, “Man’s chief end is to glorify God, and to enjoy him forever.” The Purpose Driven Life says, “it begins with…

Wow! Wow!
Rest

Wow!

I heard a comedian do a bit one time about how “everything is amazing right now, and nobody’s happy.” He continues riffing about airplane Wi-Fi . . . “I was on an airplane, and there…

“I’m An Idiot!” “I’m An Idiot!”
Identity

“I’m An Idiot!”

Have you ever called yourself an idiot? After accidentally dinging the shiny new car next to you, what comes out of your mouth? When you drop your mug and coffee spills everywhere, what do you…