Spiritual Growth

Devotional-style readings to help you grow and develop wisdom as a spouse, parent, friend, leader, and most importantly, as a Jesus-follower.
The “Heavy Water” of Trust The “Heavy Water” of Trust
Marriage

The “Heavy Water” of Trust

In a nuclear power plant, “heavy water” keeps the reactor cool as it burns the fuel, which creates the steam that turns the turbines that generate electricity. “Heavy water” is actually deuterium oxide, which is…

Driven or Called? Driven or Called?
Walking the Talk

Driven or Called?

Almost all of us guys get up every day and go to work. Work involves people, and we deal with all kinds of attitudes. Some, we’d just rather not have to deal with at all…

“Denial” is not a river in Egypt “Denial” is not a river in Egypt
Death & Dying

“Denial” is not a river in Egypt

Okay, most people don’t really want to talk about death.  We avoid deathly-ill people.  None of us feel competent in being around the surviving family when death has struck; we don’t know what to say……

Where’s Her Heart? Where’s Her Heart?
Marriage

Where’s Her Heart?

I had lunch with one of “my guys” the other day. It was our “one on one” to get to know each other. He toured me around his office, introduced me to his partners, and…

…And Hunger Too …And Hunger Too
Influence with Others

…And Hunger Too

In my last post, I shared what I’d missed about the “spring” that Jesus puts in us, a “spring of (living) water welling up to eternal life”. (John 4:14) At the very time that Jesus…

How’s Your Spring Water? How’s Your Spring Water?
Theology

How’s Your Spring Water?

We’ve spent a ton of time talking to church leaders from all over the country about mentoring. The recurring theme is that men who will take the time to invest in younger men are rare….

Authentic Humility Authentic Humility
Character

Authentic Humility

O.K. here’s a tough one for you… If you were to come into a bunch of money, would the people who know you be genuinely happy for you? …or this one… If you were to…

Abundance vs. Scarcity Abundance vs. Scarcity
Parenting

Abundance vs. Scarcity

Parenting is tough. It’s one of the hardest jobs around. There’s no simple manual, no established formula, and God throws curve balls by making every child different. Over time, you grab hold of any principle…

How Bright Is Your Light? How Bright Is Your Light?
Walking the Talk

How Bright Is Your Light?

Whether you are a sports fan or not, if you live in America, you’ve now heard the name ‘Tim Tebow.’ There are millions of opinions as to why this 24 year old football player is…