Years ago, a good friend really handed it to me. He said, “When I see someone running as hard as you run, I wonder who he’s trying to please.” My friend didn’t wonder, “Is he trying to please someone?” He knew that answer. The question was who?
Most of us start out trying to please our dads. For some of us, that’s the who we’re chasing for the rest of our lives, whether we realize it or not. For years, each time I’d get a promotion or a raise, I’d call my dad before I’d call my wife. It took me a long time to uncover what that said about the most significant who in my life.
But after surrendering to God and ‘replacing’ my earthly father with my Heavenly Father, things changed. I released my dad from all my expectations; from all the things I wished he had been and done. I forgave him and accepted him just as he was for the rest of his life. But before long, I was driving just as hard as a sold-out Christian as I was before. Why?
The reality is, some of us make God our work. We make Him something we do. The church loves it because we fill all the volunteer jobs; fill the seats and the fill the offering plates.
But we miss what God really wants . . .
Those things flow from the Holy Spirit living in our hearts when we stop being human doings and become human beings.
This week, spend time just being . . . with your family, with your friends, with yourself and especially with God.
Just as a soldier who takes on his day without having orders from his commanding officer could be in trouble, how then can we head out in the morning without first consulting Our King of Kings?
Instead of just charging out and doing, stop first to be with Him and ask, “Lord, what would you have me do today?”
Scripture: Yes, my soul, find rest in God; my hope comes from him. (Psalm 62:5)
Mentor Tip: Some of your mentees will be hard-charging human doings. Give them permission to take a break and be human beings for a little while.
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