Waiting for God Waiting for God
Decision-Making

Waiting for God

“I’m just waiting for God to give me direction.” “God says ‘yes,’ ‘no,’ or ‘wait’. Right now I’m waiting.” “I don’t want to get ahead of God.” We’ve all said these things. They’re part of…

Surrender to Who? Surrender to Who?
Decision-Making

Surrender to Who?

Another dimension of surrender has to do with who you’re surrendering to. Surrender is hard because it’s humiliating. It’s admitting you’ve got nothing left to fight with. It’s failure from an ego perspective, so it’s…

How Do I Surrender? How Do I Surrender?
Decision-Making

How Do I Surrender?

I’ve thought a lot about this idea of surrendering. It’s a word that isn’t used much in our culture. It’s almost anti-American to think of surrendering….to anyone or anything. Here’s what I’ve come to understand….

The Striking Hour The Striking Hour
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The Striking Hour

When you hear profound stuff, you want to share it with others. I often quote my friend John Richie in these posts, but when he shared his decision-making paradigm with me, I said “This is…

With or Without God? With or Without God?
Decision-Making

With or Without God?

Little kids come in crying, telling different stories about what happened. Most of the time, parents can figure out the truth pretty quick. Sometimes both versions of the story are true, depending on the point…

Don’t Promise When You’re Happy Don’t Promise When You’re Happy
Decision-Making

Don’t Promise When You’re Happy

Don’t reply when you’re angry Don’t decide when you’re sad. The first time my sweet wife flew on a small plane, she was scared to death. She was NOT going! Period. Her fear made the…

Not Deciding is Deciding Not Deciding is Deciding
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Not Deciding is Deciding

What about those deals we don’t ever really decide? We think one way for a while, then we think the other way. Back and forth we swing. “Maybe I will….nah, I don’t think I will.”…

Cloud vs. Server…Dependence vs. Independence Cloud vs. Server…Dependence vs. Independence
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Cloud vs. Server…Dependence vs. Independence

In technology circles, cloud computing is all the rage. Keep your music, contacts, apps, projects…everything… in the cloud. When it’s on your computer or server, it can be lost, stolen, corrupted, or get out of…